take and give shade.
ELIZER's VID:
" if somebody wants to walk out of your life.. let them go. "
Love Lockdown:
You could absolutely know something's the best for you intellectually, but it doesn't necessarily mean you feel a sense of liberation. There has to be mourning for the wonderful parts. You have to accept that the relationship won't become what you thought it was going to be.
Love hurts:
After you move on from a breakup and life hits you with an actual death, a divorce, or the loss of a job, having experienced a tough split might just be your emotional keystone-the building block to survive something even tougher. "If you've had a perfectly charmed life, there's nothing there to give you the courage and the hope that you've been through [something difficult before] and survived.
Getting through a breakup also requires rewiring your brain to think more confidently.
Let it be known:
1. Recovery from a heartbreak can be as simple as faking it til you make it.
2. Accepting that heartbreak is part of the experience of love is crucial.
Playing it safe:
If you're always so protected that you can't be hurt, then you'll limit the experiences you're going to have.
Little Something Something:
What's sad to me? A life that's pain-free.
-sources from seventeen mag. ;P
